| We all know that anything worth having is worth | | | | initially attracted you to your partner. Capitalize on |
| working for. When we find that special someone | | | | that. |
| most of us will do whatever is necessary to develop | | | | This may sound simpler than what is to do but I am |
| a wonderful relationship. We spend time thinking | | | | suggesting that you get back in touch with what was |
| about our new partner and plan ways to surprise and | | | | special about your partner in the beginning. Perhaps it |
| please them. Our only goal is making our new | | | | was his or her attentiveness or a sense of humor. |
| relationship as great and lasting as possible. | | | | Maybe it was the way his voice could somehow |
| We are in frequent contact with the person of our | | | | brighten your mood. Or maybe it was the way a |
| dreams. And yes, we are even guilty of daydreaming | | | | heartfelt hug from your partner made you feel. |
| about that person. It might be a special look or touch | | | | This will be different for each of us but once we |
| that was especially meaningful, or it could even be his | | | | determine some of the attractions that our partner |
| or her physical appearance. | | | | has; the things that make them right for us, then we |
| Whatever it is we know we have found the right | | | | can work toward showing a real appreciation for |
| person. We are ecstatic with our luck. It seems this | | | | them. Not only will we be making our own life more |
| new found joy will last forever. But then something | | | | pleasant but we will be making things better for our |
| happens. It may be hard to put your finger on | | | | partner. |
| exactly what that something is but the fact is that | | | | Everyone likes to feel appreciated and loved. Let |
| some of the excitement diminishes. | | | | your partner know how much you love and |
| You may find that you feel less desire to spend | | | | appreciate them. Show them on a daily basis. At first |
| every waking moment with your partner. You might | | | | sight give them a smile. Be sure to include touch as a |
| even begin to feel a sense of boredom at times. But | | | | way of communicating and expressing your love. |
| don't panic, you can make your relationship better | | | | You find that your efforts begin slowly. That's okay; |
| than ever. | | | | just keep working at this project. Obviously your |
| So how can you get that desire back, what can you | | | | relationship is a worthwhile project. Be consistent with |
| do to insure that your relationship won't die? Begin by | | | | your endeavor and you will soon find that your |
| analyzing your relationship the way it was in the | | | | relationship is better than ever! |
| beginning, in the very earliest days. Think about what | | | | |