My Boss is Not Very Encouraging

My boss is competent and understands what we doIf, however, he is relatively new to the job, he may
in our department; the problem is that he has fewbe more open to "building bridges" with employees
people skills and rarely encourages us. It's hard on theand will appreciate some well-intentioned advice.
morale. Any ideas?I would recommend you bring up the matter
It sounds as if everyone in the department sharesinformally - and privately - perhaps over coffee in his
your views; you might be surprised to learn that thisoffice. Plan what you will say and keep the tone
is a common concern and many employees are oftenconversational without being critical.
supervised with a low degree of support.While you may believe your points are also
Human resource professionals sometimes use therepresentative of co-workers, be careful not to
term "Invisible Manager" to describe such an individual.speak for them without permission or "bombard" him
An "Invisible Manager" generally has excellent technicalwith a list of general complaints.
skills, understands his or her responsibilities, and worksIn addition, it will be important to balance your
hard. Unfortunately, however, this person has little orremarks with some positive points: things that he is
no capacity to communicate with employees anddoing which you appreciate. After all, if you were in a
simply assumes that if they are doing their job, thensimilar situation, you could imagine being upset
everything must be going well.receiving criticisms from an employee.
It sounds as if you and your colleagues are workingYour boss may be surprised, even shocked, to learn
for an "Invisible Manager."of your issues. Emphasize that you value him as a
If he has been in this or a similar position for somesupervisor but that you want to receive better
time, it may be more of a challenge for him tosupport in your work in order to achieve greater
become more communicative, more nurturing.success and personal satisfaction.